For pastors

Pastoral care without losing people in the margins

Relay helps pastors and shepherding teams see who needs attention, attach tasks to care moments, and remember the human context behind every follow-up.

Dogfooded proof

Start each week with the relationships that need care

The home dashboard and attention feed were dogfooded locally. Relay can surface people, tasks, and recent context in one place so a pastor starts with care, not a blank search box.

Relay home dashboard with suggestions and relationship attention feed
The attention dashboard running in local development.

Shepherd Tone

Suggestions focus on people who may need a touchpoint, not just records that changed.

Tasks with context

Follow-up work can live next to the person, note, event, or group that created it.

Journeys

Track where people are in discipleship, membership, care, onboarding, or serving pathways.

Use cases

Pastoral workflows Relay is shaped for

Relay is not a sales CRM with church words painted on it. It is built around remembering people, sharing care, and acting with context.

Care lists

Keep members, visitors, volunteers, elders, and small-group leaders connected without burying them in spreadsheets.

Follow-up cadence

Let Circles and recent touchpoints help decide who needs a call, visit, text, or prayer note this week.

Delegated care

Compose groups, tasks, journeys, and notes so a team can carry the work together.

Playbook

A weekly rhythm

Relay should make pastoral attention feel lighter without making people feel managed.

1

Review

Open the attention feed and see the 5-9 people who need focus.

2

Remember

Read notes, prior touchpoints, journeys, and tasks before acting.

3

Reach out

Make the call, visit, email, or handoff with the person in view.

4

Log context

Capture the outcome so the next touchpoint starts warmer.

Capacity

Relay is built for the relationships you cannot afford to forget

Dunbar's number is useful as a starting map, but Relay uses Circles as something you can correct: closeness, urgency, and cadence stay separate.

Circles

Dunbar, made correctable

Relay treats relational capacity as a living map, not a hard ceiling. You can correct the circles, then Relay uses that context to decide who needs attention.

5 15 Inner 50 Active 150 Tribe 500 Known

Closeness

Who belongs in which relational layer.

Urgency

Who needs action, prayer, help, or follow-up now.

Cadence

How often each relationship deserves a real touchpoint.

Pastoral care gets easier when memory is shared

Use Relay as a private care workspace first, then invite teammates when the rhythm is ready.