Relay
Relational Intelligence
The browser for relationships
Your relationships are scattered across text threads, email, social media, and the notes you keep in your head. CRMs store records. Social media captures interactions. But nothing synthesizes the relationship itself — its trajectory, its health, its context.
Relay aggregates your relational world into one place, then surfaces what matters: who needs you, what you promised, and what's changed since you last connected. That's relational intelligence — relational data plus systems of action.
Shepherding that scales
Pastors, campus staff, nonprofit leaders, angel investors, teachers — anyone caring for more people than they can hold in their head. Relay strengthens every layer of your relationships and extends your reach beyond what's humanly possible alone.
Who needs you this week
Relay surfaces the 5-9 people who need your attention right now, based on engagement decay, life events, and commitments you've made.
Where people are in their journey
Track where each person is in the pathways that matter — discipleship, onboarding, mentorship — and know when they're ready to take the next step.
Connect who can help with who needs it
Match people in your community with the right mentor, host family, or support — based on availability, skills, and compatibility.
Built for people who care deeply
- Pastors shepherding congregations through life's seasons
- Campus staff managing hundreds of international students
- Angel investors tracking founders across a portfolio
- Teachers and mentors keeping up with every student
Dunbar's Number — your cognitive limit
Relay strengthens every layer — then helps you extend past 150.
people surfaced each day, so you always know who needs you most
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Stay connected, not addicted
Social media was supposed to keep us connected. Instead, it turned relationships into content and attention into a commodity. Relay is a different kind of tool — one that helps you tend the relationships that actually matter to you, without the feed, the algorithm, or the dopamine loop.
Social Media
You're the product. Designed for addiction. Your relationships are just content.
Traditional CRM
Transactional. Treats people as deals and leads. Built for sales, not for care.
Relay
Intentional connection at scale. Your relationships, your data, your daily practice of paying attention.